What should I do with my life?

We’re dedicated to helping you find clarity. You’re in the right place if:

You want to find a better job, but you don’t know what will make you happier.

You want to change your career path, but you don’t know what will keep you interested.

Looking back, nothing you have done in life makes you feel truly proud of yourself.

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Our Belief

Psychological blind spots aren’t a problem in themselves — we all have them, and always will. The real issue arises when we continue to get the same unsatisfying results in different areas of our lives, despite our best efforts to create change. At some point, it no longer makes sense to keep repeating what hasn’t worked. Without a fresh perspective, we can’t discover a new approach. That’s why our mission is to create high-quality resources that help uncover the deeply ingrained thoughts, habits, and behaviours operating beneath your conscious awareness. We hope these insights lead you to greater self-understanding, more rewarding relationships, and a more fulfilling life.

Our Approach

Accept what can’t be changed, and change what can be

Uncovering psychological blind spots isn’t about striving for perfection — it’s a journey toward deeper self-awareness, self-compassion, and humility. It involves recognising where our perceptions may be distorted, our judgments clouded by bias, and our emotions pushed aside. These blind spots can quietly impact how we communicate, relate to others, and grow. The aim isn’t to erase all flaws, but to become more mindful of our limitations — and to use that insight as a foundation for personal growth and a more fulfilling life.

My Story

From apathy to zeal

I am an extremely curious human being who constantly seeks new experiences and knowledge. I love my life and cherish the opportunity to try and make the most of my precious time on Earth.

But I didn’t always feel this way.

As early as I graduated from elementary school, I began making choices that didn’t truly suit me — giving up hobbies I loved, choosing paths of study without clarity, and filling my days with endeavours that left me feeling disconnected and miserable. I genuinely had no clue what I wanted. As time went on, I began to believe that this state of apathy was all there was for me — life isn’t supposed to be fun or joyful.

If any of this sounds familiar, this website is created for you. Here we’ll explore the personal, cultural, and societal factors that often lead us to feel lost or unsure of what we want. More importantly, we’ll look at real ways to get out of the rut. You deserve a life that feels meaningful and engaging; and the people who care about you deserve to be with the happier version of you, too.

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